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Kind Attractive Educated Single Father
Age 49 From Charleston, SC -
Man Seeking A Woman

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Self Description I am an intelligent, educated, kind, giving, caring, loyal, attractive, and extremely affectionate single father of a teenaged son who is going to college in two months. I work as a self-employed grantwriting/fundraising consulatnant who helps nonprofit organizations to obtain funding for their various programs. I also write business plans for individuals who are trying to start businesses from time to time. I grew up in the Charleston, South Carolina area, and graduated from Porter-Gaud, an excellent college preparatory school here. I then went to undergraduate school at Geeorgetown University and graduated with a degree in international studies. After working for a few years, i went back to graduate school at Howard University for my MBA with a concentration in marketing. I have worked in various positions in my career, including work on Capitol Hill on the staff of a former U.S. Senator, and for various trade associations and lobbying firmsin Washington. Upon returning to South Carolina, I held various positions in the orivate sector, the nonprofit sector, and in education. I started the consulting firm about five years ago. I enjoy dining out at nice restaurants, and enjoy ethnic foods in particular (Indian is one of my favorites). I also enjoy the arts, and can spend several hours browsing in art galleries. I enjoy travel, sporting events (especially college football and basketball), and concerts (jazz is my favorite music). I have raised my son as a single father since he was 5, and as I said earlier, he is now 18, and will be going to college in a few weeks. I did have lots of help from my mother with raising him, although she never lived in the same home with us. I also ha some help from my ex mother-in-law. My ex-wife lives in the Columbia, South Carolina area, and her relationship with him has gotten better an stronger over the last two or three years. The courts felt that I was a better and more stable parent because at that time, she was dealing with substance abuse issues and a lifestyle which she was not ready to stop until a few years later. Thankfully she is now fully drug free because she probably would have died had she stayed on the same path. My son was no the best student in high school, mainly because he did not apply himself and was a little lazy in terms of his studies.Some of the friends and acqaintances that he chose to be with, especiallly during his first two years of high school were also not the best influence on him. He and perhaps onbe or two more of these kids from that group are the only ones to go directly from high school to a four year college. Some are going to a two year community college here, and may or may not proceed to four year school. Others chose to leave school and get a GED certificate, and still others just dropped out when they were old enough by state law, so they have no diploma or GED. My son actually went to three different high schools; Bishop England, the Catholic high school here, West Ashley the public high school in our area, and finally Burke, a smaller public high school from which he ultimately graduated. I almos sent him to a boarding school when he left West Ashley, but he did turn things around at Burke. His SAT scores are ultimately what got him into the scchools at which was accepted.He also received a partial football scholarship to several schools. In terms of appearance many people say that I resemble the actor Cuba gooding, Jr. Others have Denzel washington, or a young Muhammed Ali. I am not sure if I look exactly like any of these men, I can only say that I have all of my teeth, a nice smile, an no woman has ever run in the other direction after seeing me for the first time! :) LOL I seek an attractive, kind, giving, caring woman, one who has the same characteristics that I do. I generally prefer caucasian or hispanic women because that is who is normally attracted to me. The age range would be 38 to 55, but I can go a little younger or a little older.

Appearance & Situation
Body Type Athletic
Ethnicity African American
Marital Situation Divorced
Have Kids Yes - Sometimes At Home
Want Kids No
Best Feature Smile
Body Art Wouldn't Even Think About It
Hair Color Black
Pets Dog
Relocate Yes

Status
Education Level University Degree
Job Title Grantwriting/Fundraising Consultant
Living Arrangements With Kid(s)
Housing Situation All Is Calm
Smoker No
Drinker Yes - Socially

Taste
Tv Selection Reality Shows
Movie Selection Thriller
Music Selection Reggae
Favorite Artists Miles Davis, Grover Washington, Ramsey Lewis
Reading Selection Sports
Idea Of Fun A nice dinner at one of the finer reataurants in Charleston, then a walk onthe brach at Kiawah Island, follwed by some Grand Marnier or Bailey's at home (yours or mine) watching a movie and talking.

Personality
In High School I Was A Quiet One
Social Behavior Friendly
Idea Of A Great Time Going To A Museum
Friends Describe Me As Perfect

Views
Religion Catholic
Attend Services Once A Month
Political Views Liberal
Humor Slapstick

Looking for
Attracted To Thoughtfullness
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